Off Route

Going off route happens to every climber at some point in time. Maybe it’s a sucker hold, tantalizingly chalked but undeniably terrible. You thought the line meandered. It didn’t. Now you’re pumped, tired, holding onto something awful and wondering what’s next. Sometimes, you retreat, back down, regroup, and try again. Sometimes you can’t reverse course, and you’re airborne.

Since I moved to Chicago, I’ve felt like my life is off route. I’m still struggling to find a way to integrate my climbing life with my life-life. I fought all winter to survive, to stay excited about climbing despite a lack of time outdoors, and to fullfill my work obligations in the face of mounting dissatisfaction.

At some point, I stopped working towards my climbing goals.

At some point, I stopped caring that I wasn’t making progress.

At some point, making it to the gym at all became victory, even if I was too tired to train or even climb well.

Before my week long trip in early April, I called home. I was limping through a busy period at work, stressed out of my mind, and worried about my upcoming trip. I desperately needed climbing to be there for me. I was worried that I wouldn’t enjoy the trip, or climbing itself.

Thankfully, I was wrong. Sanity was temporarily restored. I had an amazing week sleeping burrowed into my sleeping bag (it was cold!), meeting new folks, and steadily destroying my skin. Though I had wandered away from climbing, it was right there waiting for me when I got back.

But it had to end. As I got back to work in Chicago, the same frustrations returned. Logistical issues and the lack of a like-minded consistent climbing partner made the status of future trips uncertain. So for some reason, I stopped writing. I meant to. I knew I ‘should’ write. That I would lose readers if I didn’t. Somehow though, I couldn’t make myself do it.

This post isn’t an apology, only an explanation. I’m trying to find a way to be true to myself and get my life back on route. I’m working on finding ways to be happy in the circumstances I’m stuck with until I can make a move to change them.

One thought on “Off Route

  1. Weird. Looks like we are going through similar problems on different sides of the world. Keeping up with my climbing goals and motivation in Istanbul has been a challenge – my onsight and redpoint grades have been going down steadily, and just like you said, it is a small victory to go to the small gym to train, even though it is an extremely inadequate place to do so (hence the lack of motivation, and the vicious circle of getting out of shape and thus losing even more motivation). Hard to build a network for climbing when you are living away from the rocks with a super demanding job. Oh well. I have no words of wisdom. I almost decided that I was going to quit on my last trip, when I had to take like three times on a route that I had on-sighted before. But then, the next day, I started having fun. Again. Climbing long routes in the sun, with nice people, I forgot what I was sending before, and just focused on what I was doing then. I dont think I can quit climbing. This is what I have now, need to do the best of the situation. Maybe I need to make peace with what I have now, that is, if I cannot move now, I need to stop torturing myself because I cannot climb like I hope to. Anyway, hope you are doing fine, too, somehow. Keep us posted…

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